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I can’t imagine how many times I have written goals, set goals, follow it duly and at the end of the packaging of these things, I just flop 😔😔…like yes I flop and you know the word I say to myself, ‘las las everyone go dey alright” … which is true but ‘abegi’ but when will the right time come oooo 🤔🤔because ‘me I won de alright oo’, but when is really the right time, will I actually be alright?  all in the sake of waiting for the perfect time to start something which I end up not starting…. There are good intentions to being a ‘ perfectionist ’ because we all want to do things in the most excellent way possible but ‘ogbeni’ don’t forget that there is no such thing as ‘perfect time’ but of course there is a Perfect God who tells you to go the ant and learn. The ants never wait for the perfect time to gather food; they always gather food even if it the smallest tiny crumb of bread, we should stop giving excuses and start thriving. I try this, I cancel it, I try...

Everyone gets to that stage where we feel ‘Jim Jim’ or butterflies in our bellies. Where we believe we are in a new dimension and truly those feelings are magnificent and most times they happen in our guarded and uptight moment and we all feel different and excited in a new world. Love is sweet, attractive, and envious, but Nobody understands or find the exact word to explain the spark produced with all the elements and compound composed of ions and behavioural changes that occur. Chemical reactions vary under various proportions and somewhere somehow they meet requirements and all the bubbles show up. The chemistry of love is a deep something. It all starts from the brain, sends signals down the body and mind which start manifesting physically such as fast heartbeat the sight of the person, increased pleasure and the highest of it is sleepless night clouded with the imagination of both the present and future picture plus overjoyed happiness. C- Control H- Hankering ...

Clouded Thought   Clouded with my thought Looking for answers, I still can't find it. Alone in the puzzle of my mind. Clouded with my thought Looking for answers, I still can't find it, I miss my smiles, I miss my happy moment, I miss being me. Clouded with thought It hurt yet I still don't know what hurt, Wish there could be something to help, I feel my own vomit, When will this phase be over?. Clouded with my thought Who will help me out? Tears run down my cheek Hugging my face ever so slightly, Answers I wish I know, The problem I know but absently present, I seem not to help me. Clouded with my thought I still don't know what the problem is, But I know I have a situation to handle, I need me to be strong, So that I can have me back, Clouded with my thought

Journey. I'm on a journey, I have somewhere to go, I must be running,  where I am going I don't know, I must travel this road, Burn all candles and thrive, Through rain, fire, storm, cold. I would never say NO. I'm on a journey of discovery, It is a lonely road, But I am up to it, You find me in my destiny, I give all to win all to get my dream. Against the current, I will take every stroke, in hardship, pain, burden, loss and hurt, It is a puzzle, And whoever I find or meet must fit in the puzzle,  I'll not struggle to fit in another puzzle. Too late to quit, I have burnt all bridges, I won't stop till I reach my home, One more puzzle, battle, hindrance to cross, I have faith and my faith will take me home... I'm on a journey of self-discovery, It is a lonely road, I'll make up to it, You'll meet me in my destiny, I will give it all to meet my dreams... Adapted from a song.. Edited and reviewed by midey

FRIENDSHIP To have this 10 letters word, it takes a life-time commitment and endurance to build, knowing well that people are made up of different background, mindset and opinions, you must learn to be blind to every little error for the sake of this word that can never be quantified PEACE, not forgetting you need to be happy before you can make others happy. Learn to master your strength and weaknesses, build prospect that attract valuable people to you. Everyone can’t be like you or think as you do, accept one for their mistakes and errors. Have a circle of friends that would build a lifetime with you though not everyone is worth building a lifetime with, so know who helps you to grow. Have friends that you can always rest on their shoulders and climb on their feet’s to move forward. At a point, everyone gets busy but shouldn’t be the excuse for you not to grow, true you might get bothered about your life but your race is not their race and your future is not their future, do...

WHAT IS YOUR DRIVE . Motivation comes in all shapes and sizes, it is limited only by your imagination. Motivation is driven by personality, skills, expectations etc…. Your drive is the starting point of motivation, it helps you focus and channel resources to what is to be aimed. Your drive might be the opposite of what is expected of you by the society, but if you can master your motivation, you can deal with life's setback. One core values of your drive is learning and growth, most times when you feel good, you find your motivation faster, another school of thought says it is your problem that becomes your stepping stone to finding your drive but this can't be excluded that it might end up bringing a wrong drive, it depends on what works for you and your personally. Action often flows  immediately after motivation, link your feeling to what makes you good and think straight. The internal bar becomes the drive, impress yourself . Learn to be harsh at yourself because...

In selling you are almost entirely your own boss. You set your own rate of payand, like the captain of a ship at sea, you rely on your own judgment ability and intuition. There are many other things that go to make selling real fun. You meet the community’s most successful, most interesting and influential people. You are in constant touch with what’s going on in the world, and you are laying the foundation for success and increasingly bigger pay checks. no fire can burn,no flood destroy, no thief can steal a salesman’s stock in trade which is, as you know, the  confidence and friendship of his customers.