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FRIENDSHIP


FRIENDSHIP
To have this 10 letters word, it takes a life-time commitment and endurance to build, knowing well that people are made up of different background, mindset and opinions, you must learn to be blind to every little error for the sake of this word that can never be quantified PEACE, not forgetting you need to be happy before you can make others happy. Learn to master your strength and weaknesses, build prospect that attract valuable people to you.
Everyone can’t be like you or think as you do, accept one for their mistakes and errors. Have a circle of friends that would build a lifetime with you though not everyone is worth building a lifetime with, so know who helps you to grow. Have friends that you can always rest on their shoulders and climb on their feet’s to move forward. At a point, everyone gets busy but shouldn’t be the excuse for you not to grow, true you might get bothered about your life but your race is not their race and your future is not their future, don’t let anyone intimidate you with their success. It takes time to build the process so heed to the process so that it would be worth hearing, grow with the process.
Friendship as small as it may seem, it takes trust and complete openness to build, so those you call friends, don’t restrict yourself from them provided they make you grow, though we live in a world where it is hard to find and give trust, but note as far as there is you, there can definitely be someone else to trust. Learn to accept people weakness and strength and help each other grow.
Never forget this when looking for your circle of friends.
v  Have one who knows all your weakness but doesn’t judge you
v  One who knows your strength and wants to build your strength
v  One who is and will help you grow
v  One who fights your battles for you even in your weakness
v  Have someone who is blunt and always ready to tell you the bitter truth but loves and cares for you.
Above all love covers all weakness, let love flow through and give each other time to understand and be fully open to one another.
Time heals, time opens and time brings memories of a long time journey.
All you need in life is a little bit of help, don’t be too quick to judge, we all go through shit but it does not make us, be there for one another.
A friend that grows in love and truth builds a family, and a family is a component of a nation, do have a circle of friends that will help the nation and you grow.

Comments

  1. Hmmmm...

    Inspiring and motivating write-up.

    #AgbekeBaby *thumbs up 4 you dear

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  2. Got me thinking ...friendship
    Not everyone can be like you
    Thanks for the write-up

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  3. Great concept i must say. Learning to master your strength and weaknesses, build prospect that attract valuable people to you.

    Thanks

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  4. Highly motivating Words with truths in all its Lines
    Real Friendship determines true Progress and Self Realization is needed to get Real friendship as everyone isn't meant to be your friend...Thumbs Up

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  5. Awesome, keep it up dear. Learn new facts about friendship.

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  6. Great value placed on friendship yield relationship which make impact in the partners. Lovely Olamide

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  7. Honestly, not every can be like you.

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